If you're anything like me, you've been living your life with this fear, this pit in your stomach that comes out at the least opportune moments.

You have this feeling that at some point, the other shoe is going to drop, and someone's going to confirm your deepest, darkest fear. That you're not enough – or maybe that someone's going to call you out for being too much. Too vain, too loud, too pretty, or just plain asking for too much. I think that's bullshit. And I want to tell you why.